Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Filling out a form

Age: 43

Sex: Male

Occupation: Educator/Storyteller

Favorite Music: 80s Alternative

Favorite Bands/singers: REM, Elvis Costello, David Bowie

Favorite Food: Asian Fusion

Favorite Past-Time: Hmmmm

Favorite Car: Don't have one

Do You Smoke? Absolutely not

If Yes what brand? None

Ever Done Drugs? I take the 5th

Ever Drink? Yes

Favorite Movie: Godfather

Favorite TV Show: The Soup

Favorite Quote: "Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born"--Anais Nin

Favorite Tree: Sugar Maple

Which Season? Winter

Anywhere in the World? Where would you live? Manhattan

Politics? Thinking Liberal Democrat

Favorite Animal: Monkey

Favorite Pet: I use to have a fish

Favorite Drink? Non Alcoholic - Coffee, Alcoholic - Crafted Beer

Favorite Resteraunt? Today? Flemings

How Many Concerts Have You Seen? No Idea

What do you want for X-Mas? I don't do Christmas. But if I did a smile.

New Years Plans? Everything is up in the air.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

What. Where?

I wonder what the new year will bring. Thinking do I write more stories, do I change the blog to be something else? I like the contact here, I miss my blog friends and I miss making some of you smile with my words. I was thinking that people tell me secrets all the time and there are many blogs that print secrets. Maybe this may be an anonymous place to tell your secrets. We could give each day a different topic.
Sexual, Work related, etc. What do you think?

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

More TMI

Decided to do more TMI and maybe a story is boiling up.

1. Do you consider sexy underthings a present for you or your partner?

Oh it would be for me...if I wore sexy underthings I think I would never get any.

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"? Have you best relationship(s) been with your type or when you have gone against it?

a. Intelligent b. Sense of humor c. Strong sense of self.
what I mean by the last is that she knows wants and who she is. My best relationships have been with women who have these, but also the most difficult relationships.

3. What is on your Santa list this year?
Not a Santa guy...

4. Generally speaking, who has historically had a higher libido, you or your partner(s)?

I have tended to have a higher libido.

5. The unsculptured female bush seems to have passed from fashion. What about men, do you think they need to trim and shave "down there"?

I have shaved myself because someone suggested I do it.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)?
Sexually: Long slow love making, oral (giving and receiving), a woman telling me what she wants, being desired.

Non-sexual: Great food, cooking, writing stories, and some mindless television.

Friday, December 5, 2008


My life is complex these days and I really would like to write but can't. I will get back with people soon. So please bear with me.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

A Quiz

Someone emailed me this so I decided to do it. Please to enjoy

Answer with ONE WORD

1. Where is your cell phone? desk

2. Your significant other? Work

3. Your hair? crazy

4. Your mother? cold

5. Your father? dead

6. Your favorite thing? friends

7. Your dream last night? bizarre

9. Your dream/goal? publish

10. The room you're in? bedroom

11. Your fear? lonliness

12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? thinner

13. Where were you last night? sushi

14. What you're not? athelete

15. Muffins? tasty

16. One of your wish list items? travel

17. Where you grew up? Northcountry

18. The last thing you did? shop

19. What are you wearing? jeans

20. Your TV? boring

21. You're pet? woof

22. Your computer? frustrating

23 Your life? full

24. Your mood? optimistic

26. Your car? white

27. Something you're not wearing? ring

28. Favorite Store? Joe’s

29. Your summer? free

30. Your favorite color? green

31. When is the last time you laughed? earlier

32. Last time you cried? yesterday

33. Who will/would re-post this? dunno

NYC, Louisville, Library,

35. FOUR PEOPLE WHO E-MAIL ME: Pam, Patti, Kim, secretary

36. FOUR OF MY FAVORITE FOODS: chicken, steak, sushi, raemen (yeah I know)

37. FOUR PLACES I WOULD RATHER BE RIGHT NOW: Bed, Jerusalem, NYC, friends’

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

New questions...still wondering what direction to go

1. What do you do that sends a clear signal to your partner that you're interested in an intimate evening?

I tend not to be coy. Lately I am clear and straight forward. But alas there is no one that responds.

2. How important is foreplay to an exciting evening?

I love foreplay and it can last hours. It is important to building the sensation, but sometimes it is all about the other, just get right into it.

3. What is the first thing you do during foreplay or what is the first thing you like done to you?

Well I assume this means beyond kissing. I put my hand on the side of the woman, near her breast and move it slowly to cup her breast. I like a woman who moves her hand up my thigh

4. Are you a one and done kind of partner (20 minutes or so) or do you like intimacy sessions longer than 60 minutes?

I can't be one and done. I like to make it work all night long.

My life is going through major transition, who knows where everything will fall. I think my writing may come back, I really need an outlet.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Answers...easing back in

If you married the person you last called, what would your last name be?

What did you do Saturday night?
Saturday night would be tonight and I hope to be with a friend

Is eye contact awkward?
No but I scan a lot even when talking to people.

Would you be a real life pirate back in the old days if you could?
Probably, I like the idea of being a renegade, but I think I might be too soft.

Did you have any unread text messages this morning when you woke up?
Yes it is a rare morning I don't.

Do you collect porcelain dolls? Would you ever?
No but my mom does for I have bought a few.

Do you enjoy going to Haunted Houses?
Sometimes, but I don't fully grasp the whole "Scare the hell out of me for entertainment" factor.

What is one thing you would love to happen today?
I could use a long warm hug.

Do you think you would make a good wife/husband?
I don't think I am good husband material from my track record.

Would you ever work as a waitress, bartender or other food service worker?
Probably, I have lots of friends in the industry.

What bill do you hate paying the most?​
Child's thearapist

Where was the last place you had a romantic dinner?
Romantic? A new place in an upscale hotel here in town.

Do you regret losing your virginity to who you lost it to?

What do you really want to be doing right now?
Laying in bed with someone.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008


Time to move on....this is over. Please don't fret. People chose to leave and I chose to honor that. My life and stories will go on.